Conscious Parenting

Conscious Parenting for a New Paradigm

What if you had allowance for your children just the way they are?

What if you had the awareness that your children were actually your greatest teachers?

What if there was no right or wrong way to parent?

What if you could stop parenting from fear, control and all limitation and BE in a place of allowance, choice and possibility?

What if you could actually create a conscious, peaceful, loving and utterly FUN family dynamic with ease?

And most importantly of all, what if you could have the point of view that all of that was possible?!

Our Mission

Conscious Parenting for a New Paradigm seeks to accelerate loving change in the world through one of the greatest opportunities we have: the parenting of our children in a whole new way. By facilitating a change in the parenting worldview and parental belief systems, Conscious Parenting helps parents to interact with their children in a manner that allows both parent and child to claim the infinite possibilities that are available to them as awakening conscious Beings.

Through Conscious Parenting for a New Paradigm, both children and parents come to realize that they create their own realities; their authentic wholeness, purpose, empowerment, and connection with others, fostering the conclusion that they are enough and have enough in every moment, in every situation…that happiness is their choice!

In the end, Conscious Parenting for a New Paradigm helps parents allow the wisdom of love and consciousness, rather than fear, control and other peoples points of view, guide their relationships, encourage their children to make their own authentic choices and BE the infinite Beings of pure possibility they truly BE. Changes in our very homes will expand humankind’s capacity to simply let its own innate loving awareness emerge, transform the world, and perpetuate a cycle of love into the generations to come.

Current Situation

How can it get any better than this?

What if every child who came into the world was born with a personalized manual attached to her little toe? What if all the people who cared for children, whether parents, grandparents, teachers or friends, were issued a special device which enabled them to insure against misinterpreting or mistreating a child for any reason? What if every child who was born grew up healthy, happy, peaceful, and free? What kind of world would this be?

Well, there are no personalized toe tag manuals or magic devices to help us parent. There are no guarantees that any of us are even emotionally ready to become parents when we do. For the most part, we simply step into parenthood, hoping for the best. And to our credit, let me say that in my opinion, most of us strive to do our very best at all times and often against tremendous odds. It’s just that too often, our unconscious best simply cannot prevent the unhealthy patterns we have inherited from being passed on to our children. Conscious Parenting can help!

As parents, it may well be our duty to pay attention not just to our children but also, and perhaps primarily, to ourselves—to our own needs and our own hurts. In fact, it is most likely every person who reads this has at least one painful memory of a time when her parents completely misunderstood her or did exactly the opposite of what he needed in order to grow into a balanced person with solid self-esteem. Some of us have many more than one memory. And for others, the painful memories far outweigh the sweet ones.

Yet, when most of us become parents, we assume that we will just know what to do or that doing what our parents have done will be enough for our children. But we do not “just know” how to parent. We often end up repeating what our parents have done to raise us, passing on a healthy dose of fear to our children, rather than nurturing their authentic wholeness, empowerment, and sense of connection.

What you can do about it is to become more aware of yourself and more aware of the effects your parenting will have on your children. Conscious Parenting offers several resources to help you do just that. We have several products and services aimed at helping adults develop the insight and skills necessary to parent from a clean slate and pass on only love to their children. Loving adults, make loving children, make a loving planet.

Would you like to BE a contribution for consciousness and possibility for your children ?

E-Book

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Our Products and Services Include:

What Will I Gain?

Here are just a few of the things you’ll get out of our Conscious Parenting offerings.

  • Positive parenting practices will replace negative parenting habits
  • You will learn to de-stress
  • Conflicts will be resolved without power struggles
  • Awareness will replace fighting with your children and spouse—arguing, scolding and yelling in your household will become a thing of the past
  • You will gain the ability to focus in the moment without judging and reacting
  • You will gain a greater sense of “self”
  • You will gain a greater sense of harmony, peace, love, joy, and FUN in each moment
  • You will activate the secrets to personal success and emotional freedom within yourself
  • You will stop resisting and start enjoying your life
  • Your innate power and responsibility will be reclaimed to replace feelings of being a victim
  • You will realize that growth does not have to come through fear and pain
  • You will change your life’s story
  • The mass hypnosis that we all live under will lift and be replaced with a sense of awakening

A wider range of practices and techniques will become available to your parenting toolbox so that you can raise your children to:

  • Use their own inner guidance in making decisions
  • Be resistant to peer pressure
  • Cooperate and work together as a team
  • Feel self-confident and know their value
  • Understand how they create their own reality
  • Know that they deserve to be happy and fulfilled and that they can create it for themselves

What would it be like to love yourself enough to allow all of this to BE possible for you?

How can it get any better then this?

Our Current Conscious Parenting Products & Services Include:

Access Conscious Parenting Coaching

Conscious Parenting Coaching is a personalized approach to facilitation which addresses a family’s specific challenges and helps parents shift their family toward their overall vision of a conscious family life. Conscious Parenting Coaching teaches simple methods using a one-on-one approach to help parents address any given challenge with heightened awareness and skill. In addition, by facilitating parents’ own profound inner healing, Conscious Parenting Coaching helps parents discover who they really are as infinite loving beings so that they are better able to truly allow love to flow into every situation, perceive new approaches to old issues, and cultivate relationships that are based in peace, love, joy and ease. Ultimately, family and coach together co-create a shift in the entire family toward greater consciousness and awareness, and toward a level of fulfillment well beyond that of problem resolution. Conscious Parenting Coaching is committed to providing ongoing family support and individualized parent guidance to help each family realize their chosen goals and grandest visions.

Conscious Parenting E-Book , entitled, Book 1, How We Make The Movies Of Our Lives: The Conscious View of Parenting. By Barbra Gilman and Denise Hale.

This e-book is part of a planned series of self-paced learning materials which compare life, specifically parenting life, to a movie. Given this comparison, the e-book provides insights and experiences that help you rewrite your parenting scripts, redirect your parenting scenes, and create your movie masterpiece…that is, a life that literally reflects your grandest visions! Book 1, How We Make The Movies Of Our Lives: The Conscious View of Parenting includes the fundamental concepts of conscious parenting. All other books in the series then build upon these fundamentals and give you specific practices and techniques to create the change you desire in your life.

Topics included in Book 1:

  • Why we do what we do
  • The definitions of conscious parenting and unconscious parenting
  • Our energetic substance
  • The Law of Attraction and how it applies to parenting
  • Life and children as our reflective mirrors
  • Shifting from fear to love
  • Limiting beliefs
  • Being present
  • Changing your life

Download NOW!  We accept payments by check in the mail or by credit card online. We use PayPal to receive payments by credit card, debit card, or electronic check. PayPal is one of the easiest, most trusted and secure ways to make payments online. You can use the service even if you aren’t a PayPal member, and there are no additional fees added.

Conscious Parenting Tele-classes

The first main goal of this training is to help parents align themselves with who they really are: love. Too often, we as parents desire outcomes from our children, such as respect and cooperation, without being those qualities ourselves. We sabotage our own desires, usually unintentionally, by holding point of views and feelings that oppose what we want. Conscious Parenting teaches why this phenomenon occurs and how to make the needed shift. The second main goal of the training is to help parents raise children to become responsible and self-motivated individuals, rather than being led externally by threats, tangible rewards, or social approval. Contact us to schedule your first coaching session or for more information.

In addition to Conscious Parenting Barbra also facilitates and coaches:

KID/TEENPOWER helps kids tap into their own magical powers of creation…just like Harry Potter does!  But with KIDPOWER, they don’t even need a magic wand (however, we DO use them in class just for FUN)!

KID/TEENPOWER teaches kids that all the magic they need in life is inside of them—that they have the power to be and create anything they want. KID/TEENPOWER helps kids to see that there is no one to blame whenever things don’t go their way…because it’s all up to them. KID/TEENPOWER shows kids how to step into their power; harness it using their thoughts, feelings, and various techniques; and wield it to create an energy within that can command even the greatest forces of the universe. KID/TEENPOWER teaches kids how to make their dreams come alive!

Of special interest to parents,

KID/TEENPOWER also helps them to:

  • Be more responsible
  • Take greater initiative
  • Make sound decisions using their own inner guidance
  • Be resistant to peer pressure
  • Cooperate and work together as a team
  • Feel more self-confident and know their value
  • Know that they deserve to be happy and emotionally free
  • Have a greater sense of peace, love, joy, and FUN in each moment

We promise you’ll feel the magic!

What people are saying about KID/TEENPOWER

“I know that it works, because I have the stories, about my hockey team and how we won, about how it helped to keep the bullies who were bothering me away, and because it just makes you feel happier and makes you feel safe.”

~ Andrew, age 10

“Having my son work with Barbra Gilman’s KIDPOWER system has given him strategies to deal with social and academic issues at school. As a result, his confidence and self-esteem have improved greatly, he is more sure of himself and is no longer the target of bullies at school. What a gift for my child to learn these strategies at age 10… I am just learning them now!”

~ Andrew’s mom

Contact us Sign up your child/teen for a fun-filled and transforming class.

The Art of Conscious Relationship/Divorce

The Art of Conscious Relationship… Coaching

Conscious relationship is an incredible spiritual path into self-discovery and wholeness… creating a place of grace and safety… allowing both partners to unconditionally accept each other…. completely in the deepest parts of their soul. Conscious Relationship is the first step in becoming a conscious parent!

Falling in love is the most incredible experience in the world—and the quickest path to bliss. There’s nothing quite as amazing as a “beginning”! However, just like scaling a mountain, when you get to the pinnacle there’s only one place to go… down! And now you’re out of that blissful “beginning” and into the arduous RELATIONSHIP!

Yes, love is the greatest thing that we can experience, however shadowing that love is our entire past held within our emotional body, and a not-so-pretty unconscious agenda that adds to this volatile mix. Did you ever notice how this all seems to pop up at the oddest times, making you feel like a wounded five-year-old child? Are you wondering how you got into this mess?

Sometimes I actually feel that relationships are akin to putting two wild animals into the same cage and expecting things to work out well! A little scary and a lot of disappointment, which only adds to the belief that relationships are a struggle at best!

And of course now you want to ask the big question… WHY? Well, most of us do not have a clue as to who we really are and how we create our reality—and what a shame that is. In our very fast-paced, power over money-oriented world, our authentic self is the last ” to do” on our very long laundry list! And our relationships pay the price.

Relationship is an invitation for personal, as well as spiritual, growth. It is the path of discovering the authentic self, rather than getting bogged down in the despair and disillusionment of our worldview beliefs about relationship and our past.

  • Are you open to new possibilities and change?
  • Has your glorious “beginning” turned into a disappointing dilemma?
  • Are you in a relationship that you know should be over, but you have too much fear to actually end it?
  • Are both you and your partner communicating and sharing from your authentic selves?
  • Are the priorities of life overshadowing your relationship?
  • Do you feel more like roommates than passionate sexual partners?
  • Are you passionate friends who are in touch with your fun-loving, curious adventurous inner child?
  • Do you have a good relationship and choose to bring it to the joy level?

Well then, Conscious Relationship Coaching can help you to:

  • Transform a relationship of struggle through the path of healing into a journey of joy.
  • Learn how to in embrace your challenges and work through difficulties that couples may face on a daily basis.
  • Keep your relationship exciting, continually evolving the levels of intimacy
  • Learn tools and strategies that can make positive changes in your relationship.
  • Learn to heal old relationship wounds and resolve power struggles.
  • Learn to allow greater intimacy, joy, and fun into your lives.
  • Create a conscious spiritual relationship.

What would it take for you to allow yourself to live in the awareness that you and your children deserve to BE a part of a conscious, loving, joyous family?

How does it get any better then that?

Contact us to schedule your first coaching session or for more information.

We accept payments by check in the mail or by credit card online. We use PayPal to receive payments by credit card, debit card, or electronic check. PayPal is one of the easiest, most trusted and secure ways to make payments online. You can use the service even if you aren’t a PayPal member, and there are no additional fees added.

The Art of Conscious Divorce

I am best friends with both of my past partners, what else is there to say!…I will show you how to create a whole new possibility for the completion and new beginning of your relationship.

How can it get any better then that?

Contact us to schedule your first coaching session or for more information.